♥ Friday, March 10, 2006

6:50:00 PM Y

Post title : bEinG rEaL

♥ I don't know if i did the right thing

bEinG rEaL

I knew something tat is very interesting. Know wad? kkx i will tell u ^^ , look at the sentence below and u will noe wad.
"Friends who said they understand mi, don really understand mi. Friends who said they don understand mi, they actually understand mi the best!"
The first time I look at this sentence, I was wondering wad this sentence is trying to tell. And I keep thinking and thinking, but it is no use. Until one day, I experience something tat make mi understand this sentence. And the experience I had was a painful one, but in the end I learnt some lesson thru it. So nvm ^^.
Sometimes, u really nid to hab an "experience" to make u noe wad is Life abt. Wad kind of "experience"? Sometimes a sad experience, you can learn alot thru it. Example: A breaking relationship. You can learn alot frm it...not by how to become beta so he/she will love you back, cos relationship is hard to get bak, even if the relationship gets back to normal, the feeling may not be the same. Wad u can learn is how to be independent without him/her, how to enjoy the loneliness.
Here is another sentence:"Being nice, people don respect u, they suspect u."
lolx wad crap is this, you may think it this way. Or maybe u may think it is a broken english..but this is a sentence I saw in one of the book I read , "Don Be Nice. Be Real", an interesting title tat attract my attention. Inside the book I found this sentence. Wad does this mean? Do anyone noes? Yep I noe wad it means, and of cos I experience it again, lolx. Sometimes you are nice cos you scare someone don like u. But did u ever think...even if you are nice and a lot of people like you..do you think tis is the real you, are you happy abt it?
So sometimes, my friend, Pristal will say " Being ignorance is beta" cos wad for? Being nice to others end up suffering ourselves, hey not worth it. WE LIVE FOR OURSELVES NOT OTHERS! ^^